A Very Rude Awakening

So we had a very nice time and L&J's housewarming get-together and I woke up this morning feeling very content. The Sensation and I lounged around talking about what kind of wedding we would want and who would be there etc. (okay, we aren't get married any time soon, this was just talk) I get up to get myself ready to leave and he asks, "have you gained weight?" I was flabbergasted. I mean, to his defense, he didn't say it in a hurtful way, more of an inquiry and I think when he saw the look on my face and realized what he said he was immediately apologetic but damn y'all. If the man is discussing wedding plans with me it is obvious he loves me but DAMN Y'ALL!! I'm not sure if I can talk to the Sensation today, my feelings have been a bit hurt and while I know he didn't mean to hurt me on purpose, it doesn't change the fact that they are. I think I need some "me" time today.